Corrine Arnell

Self-Love as a Legacy 

Self-love isn’t a trend—it’s a movement, a form of resistance, and a practice that Black women have been embodying for generations. From the poetry of Audre Lorde to the anthems of Beyoncé, Black women have continually redefined what it means to embrace oneself fully, unapologetically, and boldly. 

For too long, society has tried to tell Black women how to exist—how to tone it down, fit in, or shrink themselves. But through art, activism, music, and culture, Black women have continuously flipped the script, proving that self-love isn’t just about feeling good—it’s about knowing your worth and owning your power. 

Let’s take a journey through the voices and icons who have shaped the way we understand self-love today. 

Audre Lorde: Self-Love as a Radical Act

Before self-care became a buzzword, Audre Lorde declared it an act of survival. The poet and activist famously wrote: 

“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” 

For Lorde, self-love wasn’t just about spa days or affirmations—it was about survival in a world that often sought to silence and diminish Black women. Her work reminds us that putting ourselves first isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. 

Nina Simone: The Power of Owning Your Beauty

When Nina Simone sang “To Be Young, Gifted and Black”, she gave an entire generation permission to embrace their Blackness with pride. She challenged beauty standards and celebrated her deep complexion, natural hair, and striking features at a time when Eurocentric beauty reigned supreme. 

Toni Morrison: Rewriting Our Own Narratives 

Through books like The Bluest Eye and Beloved, Toni Morrison dissected the impact of racism on Black women’s self-worth. She made it clear that self-love isn’t always easy—it requires unlearning harmful narratives and embracing our true selves, flaws and all. 

Beyoncé: Owning Your Power, Unapologetically 

When Beyoncé dropped Flawless and declared “I woke up like this,” she wasn’t just talking about looking good—she was reinforcing a movement of confidence, empowerment, and self-worth. From Lemonade to Homecoming, she continues to celebrate Black womanhood in all its forms, reminding us that loving ourselves is our birthright. 

Tabitha Brown – Self-Love Through Kindness & Nourishment 

Tabitha Brown, the internet’s favorite auntie, brings self-love through plant-based eating, positive affirmations, and radical kindness. Her soothing voice and uplifting messages remind Black women that wellness starts from within. 

Alex Elle – Self-Love Through Writing & Reflection 

Bestselling author and wellness educator Alex Elle teaches self-love through journaling and storytelling. She encourages Black women to use writing as a tool for healing, self-discovery, and unlearning negative self-perceptions. 

From Audre to Beyoncé, Black women have shown us that self-love is revolutionary. It’s about healing, unlearning, and stepping into our power without apology. And today, a new generation continues that legacy, reminding us that self-love isn’t just a moment—it’s a lifelong journey. 

So, how are you practicing self-love today? Drop a comment or share this with a friend who needs a reminder that she is the prize.